
Therapy For Men Like You.
• ADHD
•
Perfectionism
•
Sexuality
•
Lonliness
•
Relationship Issues
•
Depression
•
Anxiety
•
Substance Use
•
Addiction
•
Masculinity
•
Self-Care
•
Burnout
•
Team Building
• ADHD • Perfectionism • Sexuality • Lonliness • Relationship Issues • Depression • Anxiety • Substance Use • Addiction • Masculinity • Self-Care • Burnout • Team Building
Being a man today often means navigating a complex web of personal, professional, and relational demands while feeling pressure to appear strong, capable, and self-reliant. Many men I work with describe a sense of constantly carrying responsibility without clear space to process their own needs or struggles.
Research consistently finds that men underutilize mental health services, often waiting until challenges reach a breaking point. This reluctance is shaped by cultural expectations around masculinity, which can discourage open discussion of emotional distress and promote endurance over vulnerability. Yet the very experiences men most often face—transitions in parenthood, questions around sexuality and identity, the impact of ADHD on focus and follow-through, and persistent anxiety in high-performance environments—are also those that benefit most from targeted, evidence-based intervention.
Parenthood, for example, is associated with profound shifts in identity and role expectations, sometimes accompanied by feelings of disconnection or inadequacy despite deep commitment to one’s children. Sexuality, whether in the form of intimacy concerns, performance anxiety, or questions of identity, can influence confidence and relational satisfaction in lasting ways. ADHD in adulthood often complicates work performance and interpersonal relationships, amplifying frustration and self-criticism. Anxiety—frequently normalized as the “cost of success”—can manifest in racing thoughts, disrupted sleep, and a persistent sense of falling behind, even when external achievements are visible to others.
Therapy offers a private, nonjudgmental space to examine these experiences, understand their roots, and develop practical, sustainable ways of responding to them. My work is informed by both clinical expertise and an understanding of the unique social and psychological pressures men face. Together, we focus on building clarity, emotional resilience, and a renewed sense of agency—helping you show up with strength and balance in your work, relationships, and within yourself.
Unlock Joy.
Dr. Daniel Gabay is a licensed clinical psychologist with advanced training in assessment and intervention for adult ADHD, identity development, and relational dynamics. His work integrates evidence-based approaches—including CBT, ACT, and interpersonal therapy—with deep clinical insight from diverse settings, including hospitals, schools, forensic institutions, and organizational leadership.
Dr. Gabay specializes in working with adults navigating complex experiences: professionals managing performance and burnout, individuals from religious or culturally bound backgrounds exploring identity, men grappling with emotional expression and masculinity, and those experiencing anxiety, depression, or loneliness.
His practice is designed for individuals seeking thoughtful, structured, and ethically grounded psychological care. Sessions emphasize differentiation, sustained insight, and growth over time.
Contact: DrDGabay@gmail.com
Phone: 510-224-3829